“Parents develop their relationship with their babies in individual ways and at their own pace.” ~ Myles Textbook for Midwives

Babies are born needing older people to care for them. They require other adults to interact, feed, clean and care for them. Taking care of your baby, includes taking care of yourself. By surrounding yourself with supportive people, healthy foods, and activities that make you feel good, your baby will feel good also.

The first few weeks your activity should match your baby’s needs- eat, sleep, be cleaned, and quiet interaction. Spending this time in the “Babymoon” phase will help you heal and give time for you and your partner to bond with your baby and each other.

It is important that the mother and/or other caregivers respond promptly to the infant’s needs when the infant gives cues. Infants are not out to manipulate or harm anyone. They simply know that they have a need and will continue to protest until that need is met.

Partners may feel the need to continue working, but even a short time staying at home can greatly improve the household dynamic.

“…parenting is about process, not perfection; about receptivity, not mastery; about flexibility, not control.” Heart and Hands

Resources that can help increase bonding:
Infant Massage

Postpartum Doulas.  They often provide emotional support, physical comfort, self-care help, infant care, information, partner support, sibling help, and household organization.

Videos:

Attachment Parenting: The Attachment Theory: How Childhood Affects Life – YouTube

What Babies Want: What Babies Want Documentary – YouTube